this shall be another hateful entry. so if you are not TTC, go away!
so im back in the office and as usual, pointed the mouse to all my blog list. dan terbaca one entry which i think is dedicated to me. and why is that? because it is also one hateful entry, and the fact that she un-followed me.
owh, actually it is a hateful entry for all person who are TTC out there, written by a beauty with brain~not!
and y i said not?
because she said that she simply could not understand how we (TTC people) are benci/meluat/menyampah on the rezeki bestowed to others, yet still praying that we (TTC People) are blessed with the same rezeki?
owh, how stupid and narrow-minded the writer is. we dont benci/meluat/menyampah on the rezeki bestowed to u,
but
we are distressed for the fact that we are yet to conceived,
we are sad for we long to finally hold our own child.
and, for your information, we DO NOT benci/meluat/menyampah on the rezeki bestowed to u.
you can be pregnant anytime you wanted.
we simply dont give a damn!
what we really benci/meluat/menyampah is simply the over-the-world announcements, like:
"akhirnya aku berjaya membuktikan aku seorg lelaki/wanita... she's/i'm pregnant!"
again, the correct term is week 6. not 6 weeks. correct your English first than consider yourselves beauty with brains.
(owh, fyi, i never saw ur announcement, but reading ur hateful entry simply made me loathe u and i began browsing around to finally read ur pregnancy announcement)
owh btw, i am a career woman whom spent minimum time on FB browsing only the recent news, unlike u, which in this case, your name rarely made my recent news, gal!
so you are pregnant, so what?
like i do care?
i mean, come on, grow up!
the world does not revolved around you and you only.
i hv lots and lots of things in my mind.
in fact, we TTC people are not jealous of your pregnancy, at all. what really we felt was how unlucky for us for not being pregnant, yet.
but hey,
JANGAN RIAK DGN REZEKI ALLAH S.W.T,
BILA2 MASA DIA BOLEH TARIK BALIK.
dan masa tu, baru kau tahu langit tinggi rendah.
Mrs A said:
if you felt hurt by reading this entry (well u should!), i'm not sorry at all. u deserved it!
so im back in the office and as usual, pointed the mouse to all my blog list. dan terbaca one entry which i think is dedicated to me. and why is that? because it is also one hateful entry, and the fact that she un-followed me.
owh, actually it is a hateful entry for all person who are TTC out there, written by a beauty with brain~not!
and y i said not?
because she said that she simply could not understand how we (TTC people) are benci/meluat/menyampah on the rezeki bestowed to others, yet still praying that we (TTC People) are blessed with the same rezeki?
owh, how stupid and narrow-minded the writer is. we dont benci/meluat/menyampah on the rezeki bestowed to u,
but
we are distressed for the fact that we are yet to conceived,
we are sad for we long to finally hold our own child.
and, for your information, we DO NOT benci/meluat/menyampah on the rezeki bestowed to u.
you can be pregnant anytime you wanted.
we simply dont give a damn!
what we really benci/meluat/menyampah is simply the over-the-world announcements, like:
"akhirnya aku berjaya membuktikan aku seorg lelaki/wanita... she's/i'm pregnant!"
again, the correct term is week 6. not 6 weeks. correct your English first than consider yourselves beauty with brains.
(owh, fyi, i never saw ur announcement, but reading ur hateful entry simply made me loathe u and i began browsing around to finally read ur pregnancy announcement)
owh btw, i am a career woman whom spent minimum time on FB browsing only the recent news, unlike u, which in this case, your name rarely made my recent news, gal!
so you are pregnant, so what?
like i do care?
i mean, come on, grow up!
the world does not revolved around you and you only.
i hv lots and lots of things in my mind.
in fact, we TTC people are not jealous of your pregnancy, at all. what really we felt was how unlucky for us for not being pregnant, yet.
but hey,
JANGAN RIAK DGN REZEKI ALLAH S.W.T,
BILA2 MASA DIA BOLEH TARIK BALIK.
dan masa tu, baru kau tahu langit tinggi rendah.
Mrs A said:
if you felt hurt by reading this entry (well u should!), i'm not sorry at all. u deserved it!
Till then,
salam Mrs A,
ReplyDeleteselalu silent reader. tapi tertarik dgn entry ni. memang Ai setuju sangat.
kite bukan benci or menyampah or meluat... tapi ye mmg kite distressed.
manusia yg tak mengalaminya mmg tak faham. hanya kita yang faham.....
ai: thanks for understanding. tension gile dgn this sort of people. aku sikit tak penah mengata die, in fact, pregnancy anouncement die kat fb pun aku br je baca arini, tup2 nk tembak aku kat blog die. mcm kejadah je kan.
ReplyDeleteyg tak tahan tu, siap kate aku full of negativity, too outspoken yg takde sape nk tegur. astagfirullah hal azim, mmg tak de otak kot, sbbnye, ape2 pasal ttc, sume campak dlm blog ni, takde kat fb or personal blog. i created another world for my own ttc and ttc circle. yg tak tahan tu, die stalk, sampai jumpa. dan ttibe nk sentap.
masyallah, tak pernah langsung nk benci perempuan mengandung. tu rezeki derang. tp for the first time dlm hidup, aku rasa, inilah org paling tak matang, yg mencapub.
dan aku cukup pantang bile aku tak ganggu org, ttibe die menggangu. lain la kalo aku penah tujukan entry benci utk die, langsung tak. demi allah tak. ttibe die nk sentap dan tulis memacam.
takpe, sekarang dia terlalu riak dgn pemberian Allah sampai lupa langit tinggi rendah.
die lupa, org yg terianaya doanya dimakbulkan. dan aku cuma berdoa, yg dia rasa apa aku rasa.
Mrs. A...
ReplyDeletebetul apa u ckp. i sokong 1001%...ada jugak kwn I yg kata,,ngada2 nak citer psl ttc.n ngada2 nak ada blog ttc.ngada2 dia kata??? dia x penah alami apa yg kita ttc ni alami.. dan dia x penah nak phm n selami apa yg kita rasa..
sesungguhnya Allah tu Maha Adil dan Maha Berkuasa, bila2 masa jer dia bleh tarik balik nikmat yg DIA kasi tu..x pe la Mrs. A, sy yakin satu masa Allah akan beri jugak kita peluang untuk rasa n jadi IBU..iNSYAALLAH...
put ur head up gal! be patience!
ReplyDeletep/s- salam kenal, im reen.. also TTC!! ;)
kwn u ke tu? sorry, sebab u tulis baca announce dia kat FB..saya bc blog tu td.. tetiba hangat hati jugak..last dalam komen pun dia reply, masih sebut lagi tentang kita ni lagi.. hmm.. tumpang hangat hati jugak.. boleh?
ReplyDeleteakuis: amin.. semoga kita pun akhirnya dapat jadi ibu. tp skang i doa sgt die rasa apa kita rasa. sesungguhnya doa org terianaya ni sgt la dekat dgn Allah.
ReplyDeletegrenner: thanks. da kurang da sket marah ni. tdk hangin satu badan. ye la, kite tak penah kacau die, tup2 nk wat hateful entry kat kita, then nk mengata2. mcm kejadah je pompuan tu. konon habis hebat la kot.
hikari: owh no. i tak consider die my friend anymore. tak layak kot nk buat kawan pompuan camtu. dan sila hangat hati. sbb die mengata org tanpa usul periksa. dan selamba je kata aku hidup dalam negativity. if it's true, da lama kot bunuh diri. cam bodoh kan
cuba korang bg link blog dia boleh x?..nak tgk apa yg dia tulis..tb2 rasa hot pulak bila dgr korang citer..nak jugak baca apa yg dia mengarut tu..
ReplyDeleteI've known her since primary and I knew her husband too. She deleted me from her fb friends' list for the reason I know not (but I can guess why).
ReplyDeleteThose who have never been in the TTC period may never knew how it feels like. We don't hate the preggers or the mommies. I love babies and still visited friends who recently gave birth.
We are just a bunch of sensitive people when it comes to pregnancy. That's all. Is it that hard to understand?
p/s: At the age of 27, I pitied her because she has never been in a real world.
akuis: mail me ya.
ReplyDeletepapaya: owh, uve been deleted too? aku stuju sgt. aku still melawat member2 beranak, still bagi adiah. in fact, member2 kat ofis yg pregnant ni, aku plak yg sibuk jaga makan derang sbb tamo ape2 jadik kat pregnancy derang.
duh, narrow minded people sgt susah la. she thinks she is too perfect and can simply ckp memacam. owh, i like ur p/s & i agreed 200%!
orang macam ni sng je..kita bakoo..huhu
ReplyDeleteboleh ke share link kawan kamu tu?teringin nak baca..email kat mahujadiibu@gmail.com ek mrs a..tq..:)
ReplyDeletetkpe..biarkan je dia ngan labu2 dia. hidup tak selamanya di atas dan hidup juga tak selamanya di bawah..
ReplyDeletemahujadiibu: they said she deleted the entry. but do check your email ya.
ReplyDeletepuanstoberi: itula, Allah sgt dekat dgn hambanya yg dizalimi.
dye tak tahu dan dye tak faham..sebab tak pernah melalui lagi..anak tu tetap anugerah dan ujian Tuhan buat kite...Dia boleh bagi dan Dia boleh amik balik...bila2 masa jer...
ReplyDeleteMungkin dye tu belum pernah diuji jadi rase selesa dan bangga dgn apa yang ada...
Tapi takde hak nak condem org macam tu..
Its our blog...we write what we feel...kalau tak suka..u not welcomed to read, just go and we dont mind...
honeylily: exactly!
ReplyDeleteboleh ke share link kawan kamu tu?sebab sy pun terasa geramnya..nk tau aper isi n3 tu..
ReplyDeletesalmikhairil@gmail.com
hadoi, ko cakap pasal sape ni. Aku yg enon busybody nih pun nak tau gak sape... sape sape? Nak tengok entry tu...
ReplyDeleteim TTC too tapi belom jumpa lagi org sekurangajar begini. kurangajar dan stupid :D heh. hana yg kasik blog ni. meh jengok my blog gak :D http://jayblabbers.wordpress.com
ReplyDeletehana: ko mmg enon bzbodi. hahahahha
ReplyDeletejay: dlu mmg masuk ur blog, then ttibe u privatize kan. so tak masuk da. ni da open eh?