Heart Rants

jujur, selalu aku sedih setiap kali AF.
menangisi takdir. dah lama kahwin tp belum dikurniakan anak.
orang lain kahwin terus dapat anak.

walau berbuih mulut en suami memujuk, aku pekakkan telinga.

aku tetap pekakkan telinga.

selama ini aku rasakan hidup tak complete tanpa anak. tp cuba bayangkan, ada anak, dan tiba2 en suami pula dijemput pulang? sanggup? bayangkan terpaksa membesarkan anak tanpa suami disisi. dalam usia yg masih muda.

ya, aku masih muda. dan masih byk masa utk mencuba mendapatkan anak. tp mendapatkan suami? aku tak sanggup.

terkesan di hati kisah Mawar Nafashari.
tabahnya dia.

tp, dalam tak sedar, aku sebenarnya tak bersyukur dgn semua pemberian Allah.
aku tak redha dgn ketentuanNya.
aku seolah2 mempersoalkan qada & qadarNya

Astaqfirullahal'azim.
Masyallah.
Maafkan aku Allah.

Rasulullah SA berkata'' tahukah engkau siapa yang mandul ''..
berkata para sahabat : ''orang yang mandul ialah orang yang tidak mempunyai anak''..
lalu Rasulullah S.A.W berkata : '' orang yang mandul itu ialah orang yang mempunyai ramai anak tetapi anak-anaknya itu tidak memberi kemanfaatan kepadanya sesudah ia meninggal dunia"..
(Maksud Al-Hadith)


jadi, mungkin kita diuji dgn tidak mempunyai anak. tp itu lebih baik drp mempunyai anak yg akhirnya menjadi org jahat, penagih dan sebagainya.

wallahualam,

How to perform Salat while Sitting

so i have a surgery, bla bla, yeah yeah.

but hey, i do have to perform solat. afterall, solat is the medicine for soul and the pillars of Islam.

so, how do i perform the solat?

mind you i was cut at my lower belly which unable me to bent (rukuk and sujud). in fact, a forthnight has past yet i still felt the pain sitting down, let alone squating. and thus, i went for salah while sitting.

there are 2 ways of performing salah while sitting.
1. while sitting on a chair
2. while sitting (bersila or berlutut)

here how it is performed.

1. Salat while sitting on a chair

simple eh?

actually, this is the 2nd time i perform the salat in this way, the first time was when i twist my ankle in which i simply could not sit at all, and now, after the surgery.

back when my knees hurt during the uni-days, (owh, i hv plica syndrome), i could barely bent my knees so i perform this kind of salah.

2. salat while sitting down.

though i did kept my legs straight while sitting, it doesnt matter.

The schools concur that qiyam is wajib in the obligatory salats

from the beginning of takbirat al-'ihram until going to ruku', and that

standing uprightly, stationarily and independently are its requisites.

Hence it is not valid to recline on any support when one is able to

stand without it. If one cannot stand, he may perform salat sitting, and

if this too is not possible, while laying down on the right side facing the

qiblah (in the same position that a dead body is placed in the grave).

This is the opinion of all the schools except the Hanafis, who state: A

person who cannot sit will perform salat laying down on his back with

his feet pointing towards the qiblah, so that his gestures in lieu of

ruku' and sajdah are made towards the qiblah.

(source:'Allamah Muhammad Jawad Maghniyyah)

Islam is simple.
it wouldnot burden his believers in doing something they are uncapable of doing, hence solat while laying down.

and this is the beauty of Islam.

Till then,